How do you feel about that issue.
After work and I’m bored though I got no friends to go out with if I want to arrange or even go bar alone would take 30mins to get bus to go somewhere worthwhile.
Then same to get home but late and drunk so more likely walk 50mins or taxi if have money.
This puts me off even going out. Especially as my hair is crap and by the time I get to bar who knows how bad a state it will be.
Anyone relate to this situation. If I lived in or close to the bars I’d just go out a lot more often.
Once I’m home from work and tired it’s to much effort to go anywhere especially I know I have work next day to.
At weekends I play sports and usually exhausted also.
I just never have energy or effort to go all the way to centre.
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Walk around the parks. It’s free and people are at ease there too. Not a very obvious kind of a place to go and try to meet people. Just gotta try. Make eye contact, smile say hi and talk it up.
Short success kind of story ahead, my neighbor across the street is beautiful and new.
Been wanting to get to know her and finally I saw an opportunity when I got home and was getting off of my motorcycle and they were moving stuff from their car.
So I walked over with my helmet in hand and nd gear still on me and said hi and asked if they were new neighbors.
They introduced themselves and we got our names and just talked it up and got to know each other. It was just nice. Just gotta try.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.