I watched a clip a couple days ago about getting into groups, or places of interests that you want in a partner. And I’m having a hard time finding just one thing. Like I’m a bed person, I love just doing nothing and relaxing. But also I like going on hikes, and walking around stores just for fun. I like to travel but I’m too poor too and I’m a workaholic that is wayyy to open about her sex life. I feel like I could go anywhere and I still wouldn’t know what I’m interested in for a partner. Is that part of the journey?
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Before you can find someone you like you first need to determine what you want in a partner. Before you know what you want in a partner you first need to determine what you want from yourself and who you want to be.
Lol you literally are explaining me. Have we met? Lol there’s not a single thing you said that doesn’t sound like me. How funny.
Anyways I’ve found in all my years of dating… that when I tried to find someone it was extremely difficult. But when I just lived my life but just kept my eyes out for opportunities when they came a knocking, well things happened organically and faster 🥰.
I’m lucky to have found my husband, he himself can be described in a nutshell and he has a consistent personality. The best thing about him is, he loves and lets me be all that I am, according to him he admires me for it.
For him and I… we felt an actual spark! Real sparks, just this chemistry that transpired between us, the oddest thing was that we were only acquaintances with no intentions of any romanticism, but when we shook hands for the first time (usually it was just a wave when we saw each other), it was over! I became his, and he became mine.
I say don’t rush things, enjoy yourself and all the time you have for yourself. And one day while doing something you love, someone may just approach you (: and you never know (:
I love this! Thank you!