title says it all really. is there a way i can practice fingering, hitting the right spots etc without having a girl right there? just out of a decently long term relationship and fingering wasnt exactly my strong suit apparently, so lookin to improve before i destroy some other poor girls vagina

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  1. So in my experience 21F it feels good when my Bf hits my g spot it is upwards towards the clit so if you try to hit that and massage it you can actually probably make the girl cum that way.

  2. Buy a cheaper fleshlight off Amazon or something and practice on that. Or make a DIY one (there’s tutorials on YouTube).

  3. In my experience there really isn’t anything to practice. No one technique is gonna work on everyone. I think the bigger skill is observing your partner and when you do something right, keep doing that. It’s a slow build….. you don’t just go for the gusto. Massage legs, thighs, inner hips, outer hips. Draw the energy into the center. Anticipation will be your friend, so be patient and enjoy the ride. Candles, massage oil….. when you finally get there, still go slow. Tease her for a bit, start light and let her increase the pressure she wants with her hips. By the time you insert your fingers, hopefully it will seem like a relief….. that’s the best way I can describe it as an observer.

    Go slow, pay attention, tease, and gradually increase touch pressure.

  4. I hate the traditional sense of fingering. Fingers penetrating me give me the ick, I much prefer clitoral stimulation and most women need this to orgasm. I like flat fingers rubbing in a small circle motion. Then building in speed and pressure, sometimes back and forth DJ style after warming up.

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