Hey there. I often have that I get all fired up for anal play alone and with my GF. Often I even start the regular routine (cleaning and getting the toys ready) but most of the time (not to say all the time) my girlfriend and I have sex then. Which is good but after I cum I loose all interest in anal play and sometimes even find it disgusting thinking about it. But when I/we are already inside the anal play and I cum nothing changes and it’s still thrilling. This problem also only happens when I cum during sex. Even after an hour of teasing with regularly leaving the room to go into the bathroom my interest in the play doesn’t crash. Even if we have sex (without cumming).
I normally really enjoy anal play and it really bothers me that this happens….
Anyone any advice?
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Don’t cum until you get to anal 🤷🏼♂️ don’t take too long until you get to anal…
I’m kind of similar. Once I’ve cum it takes a while for me to be in the mood for anal play again. I might suggest a little bit of time and then some gentle teasing to ease you into wanting it again.