Do females genuinely enjoy butt play, internal and external? My misses is fridget on the idea of butt stuff. Anyone at first nervous and refuse to participate but now, after experimentation like or even prefer it? Cheers.

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  2. Most women I’ve met are initially afraid of it, and for good reason. It can hurt like hell and can even cause serious damage if not done right.

    When I first met my GF, she explicitly forbade it. At some point, we started trying butt plugs and fingers, and now she loves it. Part of that is that she trusts me not to hurt her, so if she’s super aroused and we use a lot of lube, she will ask for it and take it just fine.

    And yes, she enjoys it very much. Her strongest orgasm usually are from me fucking her pussy while also fucking her ass with a toy. She says being filled is what feels good.

  3. I wasn’t against it, but I never had a desire for it and I thought it was weird/dumb. Now I LOVE when my bf puts his fingers in me and I’m looking into my first plug!

    For the first time recently we were having sex and I had the desire to ask him to play with my butt

  4. To be honest, I’m not sure how much my wife enjoys but I remember one of the first few times we had sex. She was lying on her front and I was close to her butt. She said “it’s OK, you can play with my butt if you like. I usually let guys finger me there”. Interestingly, she didn’t seem to want to be rimmed and we don’t really do it.

  5. Fear it will hurt and fear it will be dirty are the two main reasons I’ve found most women I’ve met wouldnt want anal sex. Needs them being comfortable with their partner as well as a cleaning up routine of her butt that will allow her to be comfortable during sex to really let go without fear. I’m not afraid of it and my cleaning routine is 100%, so it’s pretty much a staple in my household lol I actually cum my hardest from it

  6. I hated it. I had experienced it and it went horribly, no prep no nothing. It was painful and horrible. I took it off the table with now husband at first.

    He worked slowly and carefully. Between rimming, fingers, a tiny plug. I swear the first time he was able to enter my butt. He walked around with a smile on his face.

    The first time I demanded it? I don’t think I’ve ever been flipped over and fucked so quickly. I do enjoy it, but it’s been so long, that we basically have to start over sadly.

  7. I experienced anal with my boyfriend during SECOND TIME I was having sex. Kinda wild. We do anal from time to time. For me it’s very arousing, and I know my boyfriend also loves the “idea” of anal more than the experience itself. When it comes to how it feels, it’s kind of pleasant and unpleasant at the same time? I’m not entirely used to it, so it’s sometimes hard for me to be able to be fucked for a longer period of time. But I also get some pleasure from it. It’s weird. And always a bit stressful. I wish I worked through it though and I’m looking to buying a plug.

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