So I (f26) recently started masturbate 4ish years ago. When I would first use a vibrator I would squirt and cum. Now I get really close to cumming and then loose it. Has this happened to anyone before? I masturbate like 3ish times a week. When I’m having sex with my partner and using a vibrator I can cum. I miss the intense orgasm I would get when I first started.
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Lay off the heavy machinery for a bit. You can get desensitized
Stop using a vibrator. Totally desensitizes you. Learn how to edge. Spend some time with yourself. Get good at edging and learn how to cum hands free. Practice makes perfect but I promise it’s worth it.
Certain medications can fuck things up. Antidepressants are rather infamous for doing that kind of thing.