I (21) met this guy (19) at work and randomly started talking to him after two months since he quit. I was drunk and house sitting so I invited him over. We hooked up and the stayed the night. Then he came over that night again and we just slept then got lunch out the next day. I found out he had a girlfriend but he doesn’t really feel it anymore. He told me all these things he doesn’t like about her and the relationship then proceeded to tell me how I fit into areas he thought were missing. Then I spent two nights at his house. We made plans to hangout on Friday. At this point we haven’t slept together since the first night.
On Thursday his best friend killed himself in his bed. He called me and told me he needed to see me and talk to me. He called me before her and ignored her all night. He told me he still doesn’t know what he’s gonna do but really likes me and wants to keep talking.
TLDR: Really falling for this guy with a girlfriend. And want to know what the chances are of him leaving her for me.
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Why do you want to get with a proven cheater? If he’s cheated on her, he’ll cheat on you. And it doesn’t speak well for your integrity that you’d continue to sleep with someone that you know is in a relationship.
So you know he has a girlfriend, and are happy to help him cheat? You know, if he does end up leaving her, and getting with you, he will do the same to you in a few months, maybe even a few years.
Where are your standards for yourself that you’re okay being second pick for a cheater?
I hate to break it to you, but you’re not special.
You’re just convenient and stupid enough to believe him.
Okay so you are willing cheating with him knowing he has a gf and think he’ll be any different with you? No! He’s gonna get bored and move onto the next woman.
He saw you as drunk and easy I’m sorry to say
If he leaves her for somone he cheated there is a good chance will do the same to you, if you’re willing to take the chance just tell him.
The same as him leaving you for someone else
If he on her with you, he will cheat on you with a another woman.