I think I just massively improved my game and wanted to share with you lost poor souls
So whenever I match with a drool-worthy girl I always love-bomb her (almost impossible to restrain myself from doing this seriously đ) and she doesnât respond well. Well I figured out itâs because she ends up seeing me as this guy whose not âgoal-orientedâ and instead âsex-orientedâ which is the opposite of âgoal orientedâ in this context
So instead of just telling her how I feel now without holding anything back, instead I ask her questions and start conversations. It makes her enjoy the interaction and feel like Iâm a much better and trustworthy guy than somebody who is a bit less carefree. Ultimately itâs just way more effective at getting the job done (getting the date) using things like mutual interest, rapport, laughs. Itâs way more time intensive and hard to carry out with girls youâre not abolutely infatuated with (which is probably a very good thing because it shows the girl who genuinely is very interested in her versus who is not really interested enough to put forth effort)