Advice!

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1. Get a hobby. Find a place where lots of people get together specifically to work on/discuss that hobby. Gives you instant common ground to chat about and an opportunity to open up other conversation topics. Most importantly i’d focus on enjoying yourself rather than getting a date. it’s much more fun to talk to people who are already having fun. If none of you hobbies lend themselves to this idea, go looking for more.

2. I’ve met awesome people at gaming clubs (i love board games, MtG, DnD, etc), and community events (movies in the square, Shakespeare in the park, etc). I don’t have any interest in sports or drinking, so forcing myself into those activities to meet people would only result in meeting incompatible people.