So I (F26) met this guy (M26) on a dating app and quickly moved to talking on the phone and facetiming. We instantly clicked. The first day talking on the phone we talked about our childhood traumas and how we moved forward, our fears, what makes us happy, religion, how we overcame adversity, what we want for ourselves in the future, etc. We been having deep conversations since the day we met, only 2 weeks ago. And its been perfect, everything aligns with us. We had our first date last week and we had the best time, we barely even touched our phones, we talked all night and danced. He wad patient all night, he asked if he could hold my hand. I kissed him because I was so excited (the kiss was great). He checks up on me throughout the day, he always showing support. He tells me all the time that he is serious about me. We talk on the phone all night every night. He told his mom about me and his friends. And he wants to wait for intimacy till we are in a relationship. We even got into a disagreement and that was great. We never argued, yelled. We both saw where each other was coming from then took accountability for whatever we needed.
I can really see myself loving him. And Im scared because its only been two weeks and we only hung out once. We are suppose to see each other this weekend again. Are we moving to fast to be in a relationship? Or is it possible that sometimes if you know you know?
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You’re only 26, enjoy the ride and see where it goes!
There’s no such thing as a universal ‘moving too fast’. Every person is different, as is their relationship, their circumstances. If you both feel comfortable with your situation, then it’s alright. Enjoy it – should things change, you can cross that bridge if you come to it, and learn from it.
Take it from someone who is in a situation similar to yours. It’s been a couple of months now and everything’s still great.
Sometimes it’s just meant to be.