Recently lost my virginity to my bf, when he first inserts it inside me it feels really good, and also when he goes really deep and hard but after like 3 thrusts it just starts to feel like penetration and no pleasure. And I’m wet and horny before, so that’s not an issue.
We’ve only done it in missionary and that’s definitely a reason why…What position could increase clitoral stimulation or that at least is close to that area lol
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Cowgirl
Touch it yourself. You can do that.
Coital alignment. It’s just a variation of missionary where the guy slides forward so our penis puts pressure against your clit while we thrust. It’ll put him more on top of your legs than in between. He could also push your knees into your chest and do the sliding up thing to get the same effect but also get pretty deep.
Give Doggy a try. A lot of girls I know prefer it.
Though, with that being said, I’ve personally made more girls squirt with just my mouth and my hands. I guess a lot of it does come down to personal preference though.
A lot of women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex. That’s normal, but that also doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t feel good and can’t feel better.
That said, try other positions or variations on missionary. Angle is super important. Try a pillow under your hips. Grab his ass and pull him forward, so he’s also sliding past your clit. Try grinding more than thrusting.
Try cowgirl. This allows you more control over speed, depth, and angle. Once you figure out what feels good to you, you can help teach him. Also, do teach him. The vast majority of people will both need and want to know how to make it feel better for you.
Edit: Also, if you don’t know where your g-spot is, or where your (lesser-known) a-spot is, figure it out. Once you know where they are, you can better figure out the angles required to reach them.