Hello all,
I (23M) am a happy and healthy individual who does quite fine for myself in the bedroom….however, I have an issue where I’m lasting too long in bed.
I have always pleased the women I have sex with to the fullest extent by making them orgasm (more often than not – multiple times). This isn’t the issue….the issue is that sometimes I can tell they’re exhausted and ready to be done well before I am ready to ejaculate. Sometimes this can take up to 45min-1hour, and by that time, most women have been ready to be done for a while.
I don’t masturbate often, I have a healthy sex drive, I eat good foods, and I am in shape. Not really sure what my issue is or how to fix it.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!
2 comments
Are you on any medications? Antidepressants in particular can cause this.
Most women will be wanting it to end by 15-20 min. The most common problem is being desensitized by masturbation so you could try stopping completely. If you stop without cumming then restart a bit later will it be faster the second time; that would probably be more enjoyable for the woman.