Well, here I am. I have a darling now, and yet, I still find myself afraid of sex.
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Why?
1) The fear of my condom breaking (I am a guy who does the safe stuff, for one thing),
2) The Supreme Court’s recent decision (although I am in a Western state, won’t say which one), and….
3) Well, I’m in my mid-30s now. Better late than never, but I still find myself fearful. What should I do to overcome all these fears?
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Step 1 go outside and look at life,look at the sky,flowers,grass,mountains realize that all of humanity is not about politics, find a hobby and work on bettering yourself
Your condom should not break. Just be very careful about penetration. Any penetration of the vagina can risk in impregnation, don’t try the pulling out game too because some cum could leak from their, hence resulting in one too. If you’re even more worried, make sure your partner also wears protection, and get both of yourselves testing for STIs. Roe V Wade shouldn’t be a biggie, as you pointed out, you live in a Western state. Regardless, everything should still be fine, again, be wary of penetration, make sure you try to avoid contact with cum or anything. Don’t cum in her or on her face. Just be careful, ask her what’s good, and you should be all set.
At the risk of trivialising your concerns, you gotta get amongst it.
I know the is overly simplified, but life is for the living. If you don’t do what you want because it scares you, then it will pass you by.
Use protection, be safe, change positions regularly to check the condom and even though you are wrapped, pull out to finish.
Is this a joke?