While walking down the street or in any public place i notice a lot of people looking at me(like guys and girls) and i swear i’m not paranoid like 90% of people who i walk past will always look at me ,its kinda weird and makes me think somethings wrong with me or what i’m wearing, or i’m a weirdo. I’m a guy btw
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Yea this has me lost as well lol I just chalk it up as if I wasn’t looking at them I wouldn’t notice they were looking at me. I make long ass eye contact with females when they’re with their SOs and all kinds of shit. Then when having a conversation with someone they can’t maintain eye contact for more than a second.
you realize you’re also looking at them, right 😅
so they’d have just as much reason to worry that you’re thinking there’s something wrong with them or with their outfit
People notice when someone looks at them and then look at that person in response. The are prety much responding to you looking at them but you are just not aware that this interaction starts with you ,giving you the impression that you are being watched more then is reasonable.
Think about it like this, would you notice if they were looking at someone else walking? Probably not, you’d just keep walking and minding your own business. There’s some bias here, because you can only be completely sure they’re looking at someone when that someone is you. Don’t worry about it.