I have friends (few, but still), I hang out with them, I talk to people. but I feel so hollow? I feel like I need to constantly be busy with something or else I will be left alone with my strange loneliness within.
I feel like all I need is romantic relationship to the level of soulmatism, but let’s be real, how rare is this? other problem is that I live in country at the moment where majority doesn’t really speak English and I need to learn new language before trying dating sites.
or maybe I just need to cuddle with someone. not even in sexual context.
like I see all these romantic comedies, tv shows and books about finding your second half and feel so jealous. but I have friends after so long, I should feel happy because all I wanted before is at least one good friend and now when I got them I still feel nothing
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Stop busying your mind so that you can be left with your strange loneliness. Feel it and examine it with curiosity. You wanna know why you’re sad, go sit down and find out
Could also be a chemical imbalance like depression. Or a vitamin deficiency like Omega-3 or vitamin D!
Get yourself busy with something that doesn’t require a human element.
Go on walks, read, watch documentaries, gym,…
Otherwise your situation might not change unless you brute-force these ideas out of your mind
I think you need to figure out your ‘purpose’. Not necessarily your whole life’s purpose, but something that you connect with and want to do… and work on that. What are your goals? Are you moving towards them?