Tips, Tricks Or Advice For Lesbian Sex?

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2. Ok…I’m not a woman. But let me just say this…don’t overthink it. Enjoy the moment and go with the flow. Assuming the other woman has experience she will show you the ropes. Lots of kissing and sensual touch. You’ll figure it out. Just enjoy. Don’t put pressure on yourself.

3. Women don’t usually have the get right to penetration drive that many men do. You should before your date clip your nails and round them no sharp edges. You should both get comfortable, maybe take a shower together, put on music and just touch. Some women really like direct clit stimulation. Some do not. Try new ways of touching and ask what they like. Don’t touch her clit with dry fingers it can be uncomfortable. If she’s wet lube your finger in her often. If she’s not there try some some oral.

4. I know you don’t wanna hear that but I’m sure you’ll know what to do when it comes to that.
   1. Lots of communication about what you like and what she likes or not likes
   2. Lots of kissing (kiss her mouth, her neck, her boobs, her belly, her everything…)
   3. Be gentle and “explore” her body with your hands
   4. do what you enjoy when you masturbate and ask her if she likes it or prefers something else
   (If you haven’t masturbated before maybe try it because it’s always good to know what you like)
   5. Have fun. There is no need for perfection. You don’t have to orgasm or make her reach an orgasm. That only puts pressure on the whole thing.
   6. Lube. Yes, even though you are both girls. Feeling nervous can make you a bit dry and lube takes the pressure of getting wet. You can even buy one with taste which might be a fun way to explore each other with your mouthes down there.

   I recommend to not try any weird positions you might have seen in porn. Start with making out and touching each other. You both will do what feels right. Don’t be afraid to tell her what you want, to ask her to do something specific or to tell her to stop. All is okay.

   I personally prefer my partner’s hands on my clit instead of inside of me. Their tongue is very much welcome everywhere. So try to concentrate on her clit but don’t forget to touch other areas as well. Look at her to know if she likes it. You can kiss, lick and suck and find out what she prefers.

   I think scissoring is an easy position to try if you feel ready for that. You can also sit on one of her legs (or the other way around) or you can both sit or lay in a way where you can press you vulva against the others leg. Hope that description makes sense.

   It might also be important to say that you don’t have to full on have sex. If you stroke and kiss their body and make out you both might decide that that’s enough for the night. That’s also okay. Take it slow and don’t be afraid to speak up. Thats probably the most important thing.
   And don’t forget to use protection!! Nearly forgot about that but it’s so important no matter if you have hetero or homosexual sex. You can have STIs/STDs even if you are a virgin so better be safe than sorry.

5. Watch girl on girl porn. Use toys and do a lot of licking/ fingering.

6. Girl Sex 101 is a great book

7. I always loved having my neck kissed, whether it’s a girl doing it or a guy. Maybe it’s not for everyone though