My gf and I are going to be trying anal pretty soon. We tried it once before a couple months back but I wasn’t able to get my dick in obviously as the hole is much smaller. We are already planning on getting a butt plug to help prepare her for the insertion but does anyone else have any tips. We know about lube and what not.
Thanks.
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Go Slow. More lube than you think. More prep than you’d think. Prep for us means super horny, lots of oral on me, fingers up the ass, small butt plugs, sometimes some rimming from him. It’s only after a lot of that where I feel horny and simultaneously relaxed enough for his cock. Don’t try for the full length. Work on the tip. If you’re especially well endowed, she’ll need even more warm up.
It’s a lot of fun when done right, but yeah, she’s in command… you listen to what she needs.
Generally, the rules I follow for anal play are:
1) The woman has to be extremely turned on before anything goes inside her asshole, to the point where she’s wet enough that you’re able to hear it when you finger her.
2) When sliding anything inside a woman’s asshole, always make sure her clit is being stimulated at the same time.
3) There isn’t anything as too much lube in anal play
Ideally, you would spend a couple of weeks or months training her asshole with fingers, plugs and dildos, but that’s up to you.
I prep by masturbating with plugs in. It helps to get used to the sensation of deriving pleasure in that way and it helps to stretch the muscles.
Anal training is really helpful because you learn the angle of insertion, how much lube plays a role, and how to relax on demand. It’s all about understanding the physiology.
What you don’t want is to have it hurt or be unpleasant to the degree where she no longer wants to try.