When I have sex with my boyfriend we grind a little with our clothes on and then my partner will stick his fingers inside me to try and help because he’s having trouble getting his dock inside me (he doesn’t finger me and I don’t think he ever has fingered me) and then we will have sex until he cums.
Sometimes I also use my vibrator to get off but even when I do get off, it doesn’t feel like enough.
I’m not sure what I need to feel satisfied and to have amazing sex.
I think I want to kiss and make out with him, I want him to go down on me, I want him to finger me and try and make me cum over and over.
But I also feel so much pressure and I feel like I wouldn’t be able to enjoy it if he went down on me.
Does anyone have any advice or can share what makes sex great and satisfying for you?
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Talk to him about your fantasies.
Hey there!
Find sex scenes you like and forward it to him.
Plant what you like in his subconscious.
When you are about to have sex, send him some porn clips you like. Reddit is full of it.
He will end up enacting some of those and you can build on it!!
The most sensitive part isn’t usually inside it’s the clit
Sticking his fingers inside probably isn’t helping much, explain the proper way to do it, show him.