more interested in my wrongs

My wife just told me me she’d rather document all the ways I’ve been wrong to her than the multitude of ways I love her so much. We haveca blended family but im.justvsupposed to.not co parent and “,stop.talkimg about it because its not my business… deep down i feel un appreciated and resort to coming home and hiding in a back room so “,i dont start yrouble”. I’m sitting here with No words no say or utter feelings of hopelessness. Am I that wrong am I really just an asshole…. I work 160 a work period to take care of my own responsibilities for child support and her kids. It’s hard to say you love someone when your the only one trying