Thought I would post in here so I didn’t get as many creepy guys with weird intent messaging me and stuff, (lesbian anyways) but essentially I can’t fantasize and think of anyone sexually, not even fictional characters, without feeling extreme guilt and nausea. I feel like I should have her consent to do that, especially if I’m doing myself at the same time, I feel freaked out because if she knew she would probably feel creeped out or violated or something, I know I personally would feel anxious and freaked out if someone wanked over me…. Any tips on how/if I should get over this? Am I alone? 😅
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You have the right to fantasize, your mind is your own personal space.
I do understand feeling awkward about fantasizing about friends an acquaintances; but feeling guilty about fictional characters seems a bit excessive 😂
But if you feel you need permission; why not read erotic literature or watch ethical amateur porn; by the very nature they have all given implicit consent to be fantasized about.
No one will be harmed by your fantasies unless your reality has a bad influence on them. You don’t have to feel guilty, sexual fantasies are normal. If you can’t stop, maybe you should watch ethical amateur porn
It’s okay to fantasize. It’s also okay to feel guilty about it a little bit. Just relax you’re perfectly normal.