I’m going to try and keep this nice and simple and i’ll try my best not to make it to long. I (M) 18 started talking to (F)17. I’ve had her on snapchat for about 2 months now. I used to text her every now and then a few months back but I got super caught up with work and I have absolutely zero free time. I started talking to her again and I caught myself staying up super late just to text her and I noticed I was starting to really enjoy it. I told her I thought she was super nice and beautiful and I wanted to get to know her. She agreed and we went on a little lunch date. She seemed to enjoy herself we laughed a lot shared stories all of that. She said after we hungout that she had a lot of fun and I did too, We kept texting but recently she’s been slowing down a lot and I understand life gets in the way so I didn’t assume anything until I started to get left on delivered for hours, Normally 4-10 hours then she would reply with just a picture. Today I get a snap of her with another guy. She didn’t say anything just sent me it and then sent me another one after that very close to his back. I’m not sure if she’s trying to make me jealous or what the hell the point of that was.I am obviously extremely confused and upset. Any tips on what I should do?
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She’s trying to make you jealous. Otherwise it’s just annoying to talk to someone like that.
Also…
>I started talking to her again and I caught myself staying up super late just to text her and I noticed I was starting to really enjoy it.
Don’t do this. Even if she wants it. Get your sleep. She’ll be there in the morning. I’m not gonna say “pretend to be busy” like some youtube manosphere guys will say. But I think you need to stand firmer as your own person.
You can be happy and stay up late for someone, but at least know if you’re doing it for you or for her.
TLDR: Don’t treat a random like an established girlfriend.