So I could really use advice. I’m 31 and got out of a toxic as hell situation with someone else, that kept me with nobody for about 5-6 years.
I’m finally to a point where I’m back in good shape, I have my act and life together, and looking to move forward to bigger and better things.
Problem is I have no clue what I’m doing anymore.
I don’t know if I should be flirty or not, all I know is that I’m a pretty good partner with a lot to offer, but I can be awkward and maybe a bit boring in a conversation. So meeting people has been a huge hurdle for me.
Any advice on how I should carry myself to be more interesting in a way that represents me honestly? I typically start getting to super basic replies of disinterest after asking a question or ghosted altogether. Feels like all the conversations 100% rely on me to make it entertaining, so I’d like to get better at it.
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Try to move out of friendly conversation as quickly as possible. Flirt more, make your intentions known.
Like anything, being a conversationalist is a skill. Much like confidence, you just need to hone these skills with patience and practice. Keep your head up and keep trying.