Hi, I don’t know if this is the best subreddit for this, but I have been struggling with mental health issues for years and now that I’m starting to feel better I want to meet girls. It doesn’t have to be a relationship, it can be just friendship, I only have male friends and I miss having female friends. The thing is, I don’t know how to do it. For example I reply to a girl’s story saying “I like your tattoo”, she said “thank you!” And then how I’m supposed to follow? Asking here because I don’t trust my friends enough to ask this questions.
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If you’re of age, Okcupid is a good dating site for finding friends (or dates.) You answer questions related to your interests and values, and the system recommends you people who have a lot of answers that are compatible with yours. Also, people can write on their profiles at length about their interests and what they’re looking for. It makes for good opportunities to message them about your shared interests.
Generally if you ask them questions, it’s more likely the conversation is gonna take off!
If you’re not an adult (or even if you are), I’ve heard discord servers centered around some interest are good places to make friends, too.
I think sliding into a girl’s dms on a non dating app usually doesn’t pay off. Women usually aren’t there looking to meet new people, but they get a lot of random approaches anyway, and your message is likely to just drown in that sea.