I (f23) often have ons or f+. The last few months I recognized how much positive feedback I get during and after sex. They say that I’m soo hot and how much they like having sex with me. That I’ve given ghem the best bj and things like that. I’m a bit suspicious, if these comments are honest or if these guys just want to have more sex with me so they try to make me feel good.
Not that I’m believing I’m ugly or bad in bed, i just recognized that I’m getting nearly too much compliments and it seems somehow dishonest.
What do you think? Do you give compliments just to have more sex?
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As a male I feel like we are prone to giving out more compliments during sex due to us feeling comfortable with you and tend to analyze things more, I myself also compliment my GF alot because I genuinely feel that way, this is coming from a serious relationship so I can’t speak from a fling / fwb perspective
Either way, they make me feel good, especially getting praised in the middle of things, so I’m all for it!
I mean, you might be getting some exaggerations from some people just to be nice or overly complimentary.
But, in and out of the bedroom, most people don’t say nice stuff unless they mean it. They’ll complain until they are out of breath. But, compliments are typically rare and genuine.
Anything said during sex should be taken with a grain of salt. Especially for a one night stand or casual sex.
People love to exaggerate in the heat of the moment because the reality isn’t sexy. “Oh baby, your cock is slightly above average for me. You’re not hitting as deep as my dildo, but it’s a pleasant second best!” “Damn girl, you’re sucking this cock almost the deepest I’ve ever seen. The last girl got a little bit deeper, but you’re doing pretty swell too.”
It’s not something to get offended by or anything you should press them for the truth about, but also don’t take it too seriously.
I do wish men would stop telling women how “tight” they are tough.