should I just give up on drunken crazy fun sex with husband if he always ends up sleeping?

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1. Talk to him, ask him to drink less, so he doesn’t fall asleep and the dick can work

2. Tell him. Open up to him. Be vulnerable and trust him with your heart.

3. Okay – I’m a drinker and this is my forte.

   Couple of things could be happening here. Can’t guarantee any of this fixes it but it’s worth a shot. You may just have to find the right mix

   Like if you’re sitting in a dark room watching movies while he drinks it could be why.

   If he’s drinking hard liquor instead of beer could also be why ( or vice versa )

   You just gotta find the right mix. Keep lights on. Find the right drink.

   Like I know personally tequila makes me emotional so I’ll stay away from tequila on nights we want fun drunk —- it’s all about finding the right mix

4. Thank you for that…we’ve don’t it all but maybe I should have him stop mixing beer and whiskey

5. Stop hoping and start doing! Just initiate the sexystuff an hour earlier

6. Be open and honest

   Ask him to drink less or stop

   Alcohol usually makes sex terrible for men

7. How late are you drunken nights?

   My girlfriend, a cook who works nights and I, a 9-5 office worker would go out drinking, come home at 2 or 3 AM and she’d be full of energy and horny while I’m ready to pass out because I’m used to being up early and she can sleep in until late afternoon some days.

   So you have two options if you’re drinking sessions go until the wee hours:

   1. Come home earlier. Sometimes my girlfriend will whisper in my ear that shes horny, and we’ll go home early.

   2. Communicate. I’ve told my girlfriend that if she can get it up, she can do whatever she wants with it whether I’m conscious or not. Tbh there’s nothing better than waking up to a drunken blowjob and usually I’ll get into it after a while and we’ll have a great night.