What are good ways to ask a girl out on a date or lunch

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1. “Hey do you wanna go out sometime?”

2. “Hey, wanna go XYZ on Saturday?”

   Pick something active and fun and cheap.

3. Just ask her that you are keen to do something. Pretty simple, especially when you are already on casual texting terms.

4. Directly. Just ask, “Wanna catch some lunch with me on [DAY]?”

5. Directly
   Privately
   Personally
   Politely
   Specifically
   Confidently
   Casually

6. Do it in person son

7. I mean you can give her the idea through text and then if you see her next day now you gotta invite her. (if she likes the idea or says yes through text you are on the other side) Good luck pal.

8. You’ve done the hard yards.
   Shes obviously into you if you’re snapping and texting every night.

   Just bring it up while chatting.

   I suggest finding out something she likes doing, maybe a night before asking to hang.
   That way you can find out and have 24 hours to put an idea together that you know she’ll say yes too.

9. Well since it’s almost April in your senior year of high school and you’ll probably see a grand total of 10 of these people against from the day you graduate in 2 months, you can afford to take risks without worrying about your reputation. Just ask her if she’d like to go on a ______ date with you (pick an activity you think you’d both enjoy). Use the word date so she 100% knows what’s up.

10. “You wanna hang out this weekend?” Or something like that

11. “Name of restaurant or place to hang out”?
    “Date”?

12. **Do not just ask “Do you want to do something sometime?” That is NOT a date! Even is she says yes, you did not successfully schedule a date with her.**

    Quick – when is the day / time/ location of the date after asking the question above?

    A date is where you schedule a DAY, TIME, and LOCATION to meet

    Work the place you want to take her into the conversation

    For example, if you want to take her to Starbucks, talk about Starbucks and then “Hey, you wanna watch people try to order a ‘large’ drink at Starbucks with me on Saturday at 3?”

    If she is interested, she will try to negotiate a day and time and location that may be more ideal and then you compromise from there

    If she is not interested, she will not try to negotiate something that works better for her with you

    The goal is to throw out a proposed time, day, and location and go from there until the details are settled

13. “hey there’s this place i’ve been meaning to check out, wanna come with?”

14. Just do it ask her in person it’ll mean more to her

15. Ice Cream.

    “Say! Do you like ice cream?” (Of course she does, everyone likes ice cream.)

    “Well, I know this place that makes the best homemade ice cream.” (Which you do, because you’ve done your homework beforehand.)

    If the date is a dud, you’re only out the price of an ice cream, and have only wasted 15 minutes. So, it’s pretty non-committal.

    Plus, if you are observant, you can tell a lot about a person by the way they eat an ice cream.

    Additionally, rather than “asking her out,” you are giving her a very polite and nice way to turn you down. She can simply respond, “no, I don’t like ice cream.” This is a white lie, of course, because (remember) everyone likes ice cream, but she’s being nice.

16. Ask in person, not text, “May I take you to lunch?” Don’t scream it, don’t whisper it.

    If it’s your first time asking someone on a date, it will be awkward, so, don’t worry about it. Everyone has had this moment, we survived, mostly unscarred. Just go ask.