Dating in my 20’s

Hello, recently single mom. Haven’t had many relationships as my last was 8 years and full of problems. Lots of bd drama. I don’t let it affect my life though(try to) or bring it into a relationship/dating. I recently hung out with a guy I was best friends with when I was younger, never gave him a chance now he has one. We hung out it was the best date of my life, super chilled out and fun, so considerate and kind. I now have strong feelings which I’m trying to subside. I’m not sure if he feels the same way and obviously we need more time to see how it goes as it’s been Atleast 8 years of not talking. How can I get out of my feelings, see if he feels the same way without asking? And just any advise? I don’t want to be the crazy girl but I’ve never been treated the way he treated me and I enjoyed every second of my time with him. Ps I did spend the night with him. Any advise is greatly appreciated.