Going down on a woman

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1. mostly clitoris, and just mostly keep licking the clitoris

2. You could suck on the clitoris and use your fingers at the same time.

   But I would also say don’t immediately go for the clitoris because it can be sensitive, just build it up.

3. Your username is pussydon666….

4. As the person on the receiving end I would say you can start on the vulva and not directly on the clit. Once she is a little warmed up though i would suggest you focus on the clit with your tongue and use your fingers for the vagina. Work your way up wit speed and pressure, not only will you get tired but there is no need to go full speed immediately. And feel free to tru different things and ask what she likes more. Vary the pressure, try some up and down or circle like movements, try some sucking, vary the speed, use your fingers, etc. and ask her what feels better. It’s very much appreciated to know that a man is accepting of feedback and willing to adjust and learn

5. Be as gentle as you possibly can. As a woman, so many men get oral wrong. They suck the clit bc it’s what they see in porn. When the woman squirms and moans louder when this happens, it’s bc she is uncomfortable and in pain. Be soft gentle. Lick the clit lots. Kiss it. Rub your tongue up and down from the hole to the clit.

6. Start from the labia minora and work up towards the clit. Go around the clit at first and occasionally brush on it.

   I’m pretty bad at it because I only get about 2 minutes of oral before the girls begging me for penetration. This has been with my last 2 partners.

7. change ur username lolll

8. some people don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, because clits can be extra sensitive.

   clits have a hood! some people like it if you lift their skin a little to uncover it, some people DON’T.

   but that doesn’t mean to lick around the vulva/vagina. if someone exclusively licked around my vagina, it wouldn’t feel good at all. and I definitely couldn’t orgasm

   look at a diagram if you need help figuring out where the clit is!

   start gentle. make sure there is foreplay. my favorite thing is when my partner starts by kissing my thighs before going down on me.

   you can use your tongue, lips, anything goes. adjust pressure/pace depending on how your partner reacts (:

   I can’t comment on my favorite techniques because when my partner is going down on me, I’m usually in another world and not really watching what his tongue is doing. whatever it is, it’s magic.

   communicate! communication is so important to open the door for your partner to know that they are accepted and help them feel comfortable communicating their needs or desires

   “do you like this” “is this better” “are you comfortable” “want me to finger you” “harder or softer”