I have a longtime casual partner. We basically consider friends who have sex when they can. Recently she has been teasing me so that I get angry and have that famous hard sex, I don’t have a problem with that, but I don’t think I’m capable of staying in the mood for this thing. I can’t even fake being angry, let alone being angry with someone for more than 20 minutes.
So what do I do?? I want to try but I don’t know how to get myself in the mood to act in such a way
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Just out of curiosity, how old are you guys?
Can you invent a character and play that out? Sometimes pretending to be someone else can help you escape your usual boundaries.
However if it’s really not for you, don’t do it, if it’s not your thing then don’t feel you have to do it.
I recommend just taking it slow and work yourself up to it. Start with some light spanking and go from there. You don’t have to look at it necessarily as getting angry, more like animalistic 😉
Its a lot of fun once you and your partner have a good understanding and a line drawn. Communication is everything.