Recently I have been talking to this girl and at first she seemed to really enjoy talking but lately over text I can tell she just seems very brief but she always seems to reply almost instantly even though I don’t reply for hours like when we first started talking. She claims to be going through a very rough patch but avoids wanting to get into detail. When we talk on the phone she loves to talk and always giggles and is very engaging. I just don’t understand the two sided version of how it goes from one extreme to the next. It almost seems to me she’s very closed off with letting people in helping her and feels she just wants to be alone but not really.
I get the vibe that she wants to talk to me and go on dates with me (we have been on a date) but sometimes I get a lot of hot and cold attitudes from her. I really like this girl and I’m wondering if she’s possibly having difficulty breaking out of her shell?
Would really appreciate any help on this. I’m wondering if girls can chime in on this if they can explain this behaviour?
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Only she can really tell you what she is thinking and feeling. You could something like ‘I’m interested in dating you exclusively. Will you be my girlfriend?’ Her answer should clear your confusion about what she wants.