How, how how how do I make this feeling stop 😭 he’s the only guy I’ve had sex with more than once, he’s basically my first everything.
He never paid for anything, he doesn’t want commitment with me. When I asked him he said “he doesn’t take anything seriously”. Now I think he’s slow fading me but after all these months (6) I’m in love 😭😭. And to top it all off, I think he’s with another girl. I’m so miserable. How tf do people go through this.
I wish I wasn’t in love, I’ve tried to distract myself on dating apps but I’m exhausted with the thought of going through this again.
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It’s time to make an ick list. An ick list is all the messes up things someone has done to you. When you miss him read that list. It’s basically training your brain I learned it in therapy. Make it in the notes section of your phone.
You gotta go cold turkey. Block him everywhere, do some self-care because there’s something you need to work on with you if you feel you deserve to be treated this way
You are indeed typical example of young woman that loves an a-hole.
Phase 1: I love mean guys who are conquerors! They are fun, experienced and awesome in bed! I don’t like inexperienced and boring ones, I don’t need nice kind guy, I need aventure in bed!
Phase 2: After abuse,break up – “all men are pigs! they hurt me!”
Phase 3: Why I am still alone?
Don’t go to another phases. Stop loving that guy who isn’t interested in you and move on. Rethink what you need from you partner and what you exactly want to achieve in your life. Focus on yourself. Get some self-respect.