Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 3 months and for the last month I’ve been in another country visiting my family, we just started being intimate before I left and we talked about having sex when we get back. We are both teenagers and I’m a virgin but she isn’t and she’s had a lot of really bad sexual experiences in the past. I’m not worried about myself but I’m worried about her because she’s told me that I’m the first person she’s ever been with that truly makes her feel loved. I don’t want this too be like her past experiences and I’m wondering if there’s anything I should try to do to make it a positive experience for her since I’m not exactly experienced at all in the matter.
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I think you need to get out of your head.
Just behave like you love and respect her and she will have a good time.
The guide to getting it on is a really good book on the subject.
Ask her if there‘s something she wants or needs before you try sex for the first time. Communicate openly.