In my experience, a lot of women actually do like anal – they’re just scared to try it because of fear of it hurting, and possible past bad experiences.

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Once they try it – a lot of em actually end up liking it..

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  2. Anal plus clit stim leads to some unbelievable orgasms for some women. Helps if the guy isn’t just jamming it in there and not caring how she feels.

  4. Dont do what im doing now, which is?
    Obviously. No one with any respect for their S/O would do that.

  5. Correction- a lot of woman like anal when they try it and it’s done correctly.

    Thankfully my husband took his time with me and anal is one of my favorite ways to come.

    We need to get back to it since it’s been months and it hurts again. But we are. 🙂

  6. Anal is great if you have a partner that lets you take your time and knows how to use lube. Clips g your nails helps to

  7. Most men think anal like porn and they are wrong.
    You need to be so much slower, ALWAYS use lube, and really let her control it.
    You can’t treat the putt like a vagina.
    Also poop, unless you cleaned it out, is likely to be present

  8. And some of us hate it with a passion. I had an anal obsessed ex. He would not accept no. He believed men have rights and told me that by saying no I was trying to control him.

    I had such a bad experience that if a man mentions anal I lose any and all attraction to him. It is nothing personal. Just a gut reaction and there’s no changing it

  10. every girl begs for anal, if you start with a solid honorable rimjob

    Edit: because there are plenty downvotes: it’s a joke lol

  11. I am a woman and REALLY like anal.

    However, I don’t agree to it with every partner I have. I have to be in rhe mood. I also gauge whether my partner is going to take the time to make the experience enjoyable for me, or if they’re just in it for themselves.

    Additionally, if a partner ever says “try it! Most women actually like it!” After I’ve said no, I ALWAYS counter with “have YOU tried it? I have my strap on here. You go first!” The answer to that question/suggestion usually tells me who they are as a person and whether or not I’ll ever have anal with them lmao.

  12. Some do, and some *really* don’t.

    Also, most seem to like it way more slowly/gently than vaginal. Though I had an ex who was the exact opposite – very sensitive vagina, liked hard thrusting anal. People are different!

  13. Serious question that will come off as a humblebrag but I promise I just really would like to know.

    Do women still like anal with a guy with a really big dick? I’m way above average in length and even more so in girth. I’m definitely the kind of person that would take it slow and try to give the best possible experience but I’ve never had a partner willing to even try.

  14. That’s good for you, but ugh from what I’ve heard most of my personal friends who are women don’t like it…

  16. I liked anal but didn’t want it often until we started using coconut oil. Turns out the lube we’d been using was making it feel like sandpaper, the oil was way nicer and I encourage it often now haha

  17. I actually really like anal but I don’t like it with lube and neither does my boyfriend. We both prefer using my own “wetness” and then doing anal

  18. Most women is not correct.

    A lot of women love anal when done correctly, a lot of women hate anal when done correctly, and a lot of women are indifferent to anal.

  19. Everyone saying it’s great can you offer tips on how it should be done right? I think those with positive experiences could help? Please and thank you!

  20. That, but most importantly, a lot of us would only do it with an established trusted partner. Most of us won’t do it with hookups and even with fwbs, we would be very guarded.

  21. It’s my belief (F34) that many would like it if they took the right approach and took time to prepare. It’s something you have to be open minded about and patient. But it can be quite enjoyable physically and mentally.

  23. When it’s done correctly and when how they feel is taken into account, not when some dude who’s watched too much porn decides to jam it in and pulverize them

  26. The woman I know who enjoy it report extremely powerful orgasms when combined with clitoral stimulation.

    I’m a fan.

  27. Just lay back, let her put it in herself, and just don’t move a muscle until she says so/gets used to everything. Worked for me and my ex when we were giving it a try, foolproof, no accidents or pain.

  28. HAHAHA. Another pitch by a man of the joy of anal for woman, I’m a man by the way. There is definitely a percentage of woman who dig it, I’m going to say 4 out of 5 won’t even go there whether they would end up liking it or not. Pestering for it a sure way to annoy the hell out of most woman.

  29. I mean, a lot of people like a lot of things. It’s about being done properly, with ease, lube, and a lot or preparation

  30. Absolutely NOT. I will never. More power to the women who can. I got two other holes available. Not trying to go three for three. But all jokes aside, no shame on those who like it. Different strokes!

  31. yeah i love anal sex. it feels so good feeling full but also for me it feels like i’m edging during the whole act!

  32. Mine didn’t like it…..course she slipped when on top and it wasn’t meant to spear her in the backdoor either. She has PTSD….I just touch the backdoor and she squalls lol.

  34. Some women like anal but I wouldn’t say most. Don’t speak for all women if you are a woman, and don’t speak for women at all if you’re a man.

  35. I didn’t try it until I was 31 years old. I wasn’t really against it but I never had a partner who asked. When I got with my current partner he talk to me about it and asked if I was willing to try it. I did and I loved it from the first time 🤷🏽‍♀️ It definitely helped that he knew what he was doing but honestly since we’ve been together for many years now we’ve broken all the rules and I like it even better without lube lol. I mean not with no lube but with my own vaginal lube because I make tons of it so we usually just start out with vaginal and then let it drip down as I’m doing it and somehow it’s always more than enough! I’ve had really good orgasms doing anal and it’s more intense in a really good way. I definitely wouldn’t pressure anyone into it doesn’t want to but I will say if you asked me before I met him I would say I’d really don’t want to but when you meet someone who you’re so sexually compatible with and the chemistry is just 🔥🔥🔥 you might find yourself more open than you originally thought!

  36. Comedian Ali Wong said it best: Women who are afraid of anal aren’t scared of it hurting. They wax their genitals. They pick out their eyebrows. They do all kinds of painful things on the regular. What they’re really afraid of is doo-doo on the dick. They’re afraid that he’s gonna pull out and see all of your shame and your evil. Sephora can’t save you now.

  38. First time I tried, it hurt. So I made him stop, and we went back to piv. Needless to say I got a uti. So I am hesitant to try anal again just because of that experience. I know you shouldn’t go from back to front, it was just a in the moment kind of thing. Also Poop is also what is stopping me from trying again.

  39. Nope, tried it a lot, properly and with research on methods, positions etc. I don’t enjoy it at all. Not every woman likes the same thing or man for that matter and that’s okay. Good luck.

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