I have realized over the past year that I am not as charismatic as I used to be. Throughout middle/high school/ even college I would find people often laughing at the things I say, and it never being intentional. I would like to become more charismatic and come off as “effortless”. I’ve been trying to observe the charismatic people I’ve been coming across. One trait I’ve picked up on, is that it seems like they don’t even have to try to be likable! They are just effortlessly charismatic it appears.
I think a major roadblock facing me if my age, and young looking appearance. I am 22F, but people are always shocked to hear this. This past weekend. a waitress told me she thought I was 14. I hypothesis I may not be acting my age? I would also like to work on this and give off adult vibes to help combat my baby face. I am unsure how/where to start on my journey towards being charismatic.