Basically the title. After a lot of improvement I’m at a point where I can confidently say that yes, I would date myself. I’m not perfect and I’ll keep improving but I think I have a lot of good things to offer. I have also learned how to be better at dating and I notice those improvements on myself
Still, dating isn’t going well. While I’m not an extrovert, I do put myself in social situations and I meet new people nearly every week, but so far to no success. I had a recent situation which seemed to be doing great but she eventually told me she didn’t see us as more than good friends. This wasn’t a case of me only acting friendly, as we flirted a lot and had sex a few times, even
My question is: What now? What do I do?
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It is a worthless question because most people are already comfortable with themselves. I would date myself but my current self would not be appealing to very many people. The actual question is what can I do to become appealing to others. For a guy a good rule of thumb is to be fit, financially successful or motivated, and sociable.
You keep getting better. Make more money than you did last year, be more fit than you are now, get better at the hobbies you have and find new ones. You don’t stop improving yourself once the answer to that question is yes. Continue to reach new heights.