Is there any explanation for the obsession with “coming inside” of your partner?

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1. My guess would be nature and the instinct to procreate.

2. I think it has more to do with continuing with the thing that you are doing and feels good, and not having to stop that.

3. I think it’s hot we wear condoms but I like to feel him twitching in me

4. I have a hard time putting my finger on what it is that I love about it. I don’t think it’s a procreation thing, at least I’m very clear on not wanting kids and I don’t associate a guy cuming with pregnancy.

   It’s more a reward/success/trophy thing. *I* made him cum with *my* body and I have his cum in me to prove it. At least I get a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment from it.

   There’s also something about having it in me like a reminder of the sex. Having it leak out later is a big thing for me, especially if I’m in public and feel it. It’s my naughty little secret, a reminder that not long ago I had sex and everyone around me doesn’t know it.

5. Feels incredible. That’s pretty much it for my reasoning.

6. [m] I wouldn’t call it an obsession, but a preference. It feels more natural. For me, it greatly enhances an already existing special/close connection with a lady when she wants my cum in her. Definitely not a procreation thing as the vast majority of sexual encounters did not have impregnation as the desired result, at all.

7. I’ve been thinking for a few minutes about whether there’s a psychological aspect of it for me. There probably is, but I haven’t figured it out yet.

   The biggest reason, though, is just that it feels *so* good. Vaginas are supposed to feel good. I am forever grateful to evolution for that.

   And yes, as other people have said, not having to interrupt the action is also part of it.