I am 32 and I have a 3,5 years old son. I live in Spain but I am not Spanish. I have been single for 2,5 years even though I am reary for a mature, healthy relationship. I have been dating here and there but we call it quits after just a few dates as the only guys that would accept dating a single mom are guys that like children and those always want to have their own child (in my experience). I stop dating them as soon as this is discussed as I know for sure I do not want to be pregnant and give birth ever again. My first pregnancy was a traumatic experience for me and I would need to be an idiot to willingly go through this again. How/Where do I find men who would accept a single mom but do not want children of their own or can’t have children of their own (e.g. are infertile)?? Any ideas?
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You simply have to keep searching, when the matter surfaces explain your trauma. You’re in an inconvenient position because knowing you’re a mom men will assume you’re willing to have more, but I also wouldn’t specificy right away “I don’t want more children” because it’d come across as someone who just wants their children to be taken care of by someone.
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When you first start talking to a guy being it up and see where things go after that. Also you can date a single dad who already has kids and doesn’t want more or an older guy who doesn’t want more. I’d explain that when u first start taking to someone.