So i work full time and also have a part time job, i am a severe introvert and i dont even want to talk to my mom because i just dont feel like talking. Im outgoing at work but when i get home i crash and when i get too worn out i communicate to others that i just dont want to talk. I feel like i dont offer a decent conversation and that im seen as an asshole because i dont want to talk. I just want to listen but sometimes listening even gets on my nerves. When i talk for a long time i start to get irritated and want the conversation to end. Am i an asshole or is this personality trait just how i am? Like last night was my only day off and i went downstairs to smoke and my mom came outside and she wouldnt be quiet, she just kept on talking and i was starting to get irritated. Sometimes i just want everyone to be quiet and to leave me alone.
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Nah bro you’re just an introvert.
You would be both if you were a dick to people when you didn’t want to talk to them, but telling them that you’re not up for a conversation isn’t rude.
No small talk. Get straight to the point. What do you want?