Female here. This doesn’t happen every time, but when it does it feels very embarrassing. What gives?

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  1. That just a result of thorough sex. Prolly has a bit to do with you holding them up for a while too. It’s very common. Don’t be embarrassed, it’s a good sign usually. It’s not painful or anything, right?

  2. I would assume it’s just like shock? It also depends on the speed/roughness of the actual sex, too. When it’s softer and slower, I’m fine. If it’s more passionate, I become very weak. This also applies to things like oral sex for me too haha

  3. I’ve been with several partners who experience this when the sex is good and they had strong orgasms. So it’s not embarrassing at all. I think when we see it we know we did well 🙂

  4. It can be a sign of a delayed orgasm feeling too, I’ve had it & it’s normal. U can also have it during an orgasm. Some orgasm takes longer than others, while happening (at least in my experience) Don’t feel embarrassed about it, u re just having a good sexual experience & the person that is giving it to u is happy for sure!

  5. Shouldn’t hate it. My experience has been that every partner who’s had leg shaking orgasms has had them from the intensity. Like it’s almost too much. Embrace it. Not a wuss. When I as guy have an earth shattering orgasm I’m not good for much for a while. Same thing, slightly different physiological responses.

  6. That is the finest compliment you could give a lover. Good sex requires abandon. When your partner just rolls over and get on her phone you know you were a list ite,. When all your lover can do afterwards is twitch you know you did right by her.

  7. My observations are there is a strong correlation between intense orgasms/multiple orgasms and leg shaking and other uncontrollable physical reactions a lady experiences. I’ve see ladies experience orgasms so intensely that they need to disconnect from all stimulation. There is absolutely nothing embarrassing about experiencing intense orgasms and the various uncontrollable physical reactions thereto. It tells me I have done a lot of things right in my efforts to provide my lady maximum pleasure. And it is typically confirmed by the lady herself sooner or later. I guess it can be confusing at first.

  8. This happens to me once in a while when the gettin’s good. Multiple guys have told me they think it’s really hot, so I wouldn’t worry about it at all.

  9. Just stimulation. It’s good not bad. May be clit related, I’ve had it where I could make one leg or the other shake depending on the side of the clit I touched. Amused me to be able to cause that on a partner.

  10. Female as well. I wouldn’t be embarrassed,but I’ve also always wondered why I have this feeling afterwards. I call it spaghetti legs. I normally have issues walking after good/rough sex

  11. It happens to me and I was embarrassed about it at first but then my hubby said he loves it when my legs shake because he knows he’s given me a really good orgasm. It’s mainly during oral for me.

  12. Don’t be embarrassed. That is great for a guy to see you like that and that he did that to you lol

  13. It’s just a side affect of a particularly strong orgasm. Personally I wish I got them more often.

  14. For me it’s because I tense my legs a lot during sex. You don’t tend to notice it because you’re otherwise distracted at the time.

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