I’m not totally sure why I don’t want to
I’ve briefly tried it once or twice with her, and briefly once with the only other girl I’ve had sex with. I just don’t like it. It makes me want to gag, and I probably would’ve actually gagged if I had kept going with it with either person. Even if it doesn’t *actually* taste bad, there’s something overwhelming about it and I can’t get into it. But tbh sometimes it just doesn’t smell all that appetizing down there.
I do love my girlfriend but I think part of it might be with her being overweight. I just don’t find that aspect of her sexy at all, and it makes me less inclined to go down on her, and I’m not sure if her weight makes it less tasty (sweat and stuff)
She’s said before she doesn’t mind that I don’t, but she just told me she wants me to. I recognize that it’s not really fair that I won’t, so I never ask her to go down on my or anything like that. If she wants to, that’s great, but I know it wouldn’t be okay to ask her to do something I’m unwilling to do.
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Do you want to maybe direct a question towards us?
I have a hard rule.
If my wife wants head, she has to take a shower first. A shower this morning doesn’t count. I’m happy to go down on her, just on my terms.
Well, I will put it this way, I have never had the experience of going down on a women and it has smelled off putting; and, from what I am told, any overly strong or bad smell is an indication that there something out of balance, or maybe she is not cleaning herself properly
It could also be the case that you are just off put by it in general, only you would know.
Anyway, you didn’t really ask a question in your post, I am not sure what you want us to say?
Hell don’t do it if it doesn’t make you comfortable if she doesn’t understand that’s on her but don’t let anyone push you out of your comfort zone and if you do decide to do it send her right to the shower it should become less off putting after that hell I don’t even like giving oral
Does your gf normally come from sex? Oral can be really important to women for orgasms and general sexual satisfaction. Try showering with her first maybe (shower foreplay is really hot) and figure out if it really is taste or sweat, or general dislike for giving head.