About two weeks ago, I went to an Pool party with coworkers. The woman in question saw me, was shocked to see me without a face mask for the first time and gave me a hug to say hello. (She’s a little tipsy at this point). We talked later about the wine that she brought to the party. I told her to go find it and see if there was any left and she told me to come with her. When I walked too fast she told me to stop running away from her. She told my friend at the party that she thought I was cute. Lastly, she grabbed my hand once music came on and wrapped my arms around her waist as she started grinding on me. I walked away as we got physical because I didn’t want to get frisky in front of coworkers. We see each other at work often but don’t talk much. Here’s the kicker… I’m 22 and she’s 38 🤷🏿♂️ would I come off creepy if I added her on Facebook or should I leave it alone?
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Situation aside: its generally a rule of thumb to keep work and private accounts seperate. There are too many internet tales os casual friends on social media screwing up peoples work lives.
I would maybe try to talk to her at work just to check the vibe, then you could always ask for her social media if you feel like you still hit it off with each other.
I will say that pursuing any type of romantic/physical relationship with a coworker, if that’s what you’re interested in, can become really awkward if things don’t work out. Some companies even have policies against it. Be smart about it and consider if you’ll be able to keep on working with her if anything goes wrong.