I (19m) recently decided to experiment with a trans girl (received oral sex). However during the act I struggled to stay hard, barely managed to cum and threw up after I left the apartment. Although Im content in knowing im into cis-gender women, I now have to live with this experience for the rest of my life. Its been stressing me out and I feel anxious even way after the experience. How do I get rid of these feelings?
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I think you acknowledge your feelings and let them exist without judgement of yourself.
You thought you might like something, you tried it, you learned that you didn’t like it. I’m assuming you treated her kindly too. This is all admirable. You are in touch with yourself enough to try new things, and in touch with yourself enough to recognise your emotions and learn form them. Normal, healthy, human things. This is the way to a good and fulfilling sex life. You bring your knowledge of yourself to your next partner and the sex only gets better.
This is why it’s called experimenting! And now you know it’s not for you! Nothing wrong with that and also you’re very young! It will be a nice story to tell once you’re older and have had more experiences
Dont ever do that again!
You had an experience. It is ok if it was bad for you. You learned something, that’s how you grow as a person. Don’t hate yourself for it, but obviously don’t repeat something you don’t want in your life.