So I’ve had sex in my last relationship, but it wasn’t very good. My ex thought just bc he had a big dick meant he didn’t have to try. I would try my best but I think I could’ve done more maybe.
I’ve been talking to this guy lately, and I’m thinking we might get into something for the summer. But this guy has lots of experience, and I only have my ex. I wanna make sure if things do turn into more than friends, that I’ll be prepared and have ideas on what to do and not be boring
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I would say the two most important things are moaning and initiative/being active. Nobody want to have sex with someone who is silent, he wants to hear you moan and react. Lying there silently and unmoving while he thrusts is boring too and will make him feel like he is having sex with a corpse. So be active. In the positions like missionary where you have a more passive role you can still touch him. Switch it up so you’re on top every once in a while and in other positions try moving in the same rhythm as him, obviously if you can’t then stop because it’s worse to destroy his rhythm, but if you do move well together it’s great
Talk about what you like have him talk about what he likes. You can also just take initiative to move into positions instead of him moving you. And, you can tell him what to do or show him. Like tell him to “lay down,” “go slower/faster.” Can also just grab his hand and place is on the parts of your body you want ect.
main point is do whatever that made you feel good.
in missionary, put your legs behind his back and wrap your arms behind his neck, occasionally slap his ass.
try to hump pillow and when you’re on top try to replicate that using the area above his dick.
wear lingerie, make noises, give sloppy bj (use spit). be vocal, tell him to do what you like