So been I’ve been dating a girl for 3 months and last night we were out on a date. We were both drunk in the middle of the date and said she was going to go meet up with her friend from work and the group she was with and that I don’t have to come if I don’t want to, but she made it sound like she was going regardless. Tbh I wasn’t sure if I was up for it and I got a little annoyed that she was about to ditch the date otherwise, so agreed and felt a little forced into it. At the end of the night I brought it up and told her it annoyed me a little bit and we talked it out. Her friend was having a bad night and she wanted to make her feel better. I got her point of view and in the morning when we were sober acknowledged that I understood where she was coming from.
I’m bad with conflict and I can’t help but feel like I fucked up, but also we talked about it very calmly and heard each other’s point of views so maybe that’s a good sign??