My gf has vaginismus, so when she wants to make me finish we’ve tried using bj and hands, but I end up lasting too long, she gets tired, and don’t actually manage to finish at all.
Obviously sex isn’t just about finishing, and I’ve told her I don’t mind at all and that it’s still fantastic. I find her super attractive, and I really don’t think it’s that I was stressed or distracted as this has happened with other partners too.
So, any advice for finishing sooner?
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Don’t masturbate for a couple days beforehand.
Im the same, got vaginismus. My bf lasts so long its difficult. We just swap between oral, penatrive sex.