That it. Aside from balding I’m a solid 6.7-7, but I can’t flirt. All I can is have platonic conversations. Flirting doesn’t make sense to me and it makes me uncomfortable after my ex. Idk what to do, like every time I try to I feel like a creep. I’m also unfunny. So it’s either deep philosophical conversations with me, or talking about mundane things. I hate it. I used to be somewhat funny and charming, I used to be able to make freinds and get girlfriends. But my last few relationships plus personal turmoil have made it impossible. I wish I didn’t get horny or want romantic relationships. I wish I could be okay with just being by myself for the rest of my life. God. I’ve had more than a few quite attractive women who were interested at first that I met through online dating but as soon as they started talking to me or met me they lost interest. Idk what to do anymore can anyone help?
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Sometimes, intellectual or philosophical conversations will come wayyy better than flirty ones. You just have to find a person you click with. Sounds cliché but i believe in this. We wont click with anyone and that’s okay.
First lighten up. It’s not about being hysterically funny but rather just mellow, goofy, & light hearted. Make fun of your own self. Take interest in things that don’t really matter much in the world if you don’t wanna be too serious/intellectual all the time. Humility is really attractive. Watch some funny sitcoms. Maybe you’ll get inspired. Don’t over think anything. Just go with the flow.