My fiancé works graveyard 7pm to 5:30am Monday thru Friday morning he works 4-10hr shifts. & he sleeps during the day on work days. And during the week we don’t have sex at all cuz he’s so tired which I understand and we also have a kid together which makes it even more difficult. So we only have sex Friday-Sunday nights!! During the week I pleasure myself but sometimes it’s just not fulfilling/ not enough!! I just wanna get on top & ride him!! It’s so frustrating I just wanted to vent. Anyone else have similar issues???

6 comments
  1. Have you tried to talk to him about it? What if you introduced mutual play with toys or something during the week?

  2. Been there. The split shift works for taking care of kids but it’s a killer on the marriage. I did this exact same thing and getting myself off alone was part of my survival.
    So sorry this!

  3. Same. Husband is 3rd shifter, im 1st shifter. I love my toys! However, I do miss the physical intimacy of touch and pleasing my partner. We only have Fridays and Saturdays together. As we’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to deal with it but still sucks.

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