If it hasn’t happened, how would you feel if it did? Flattered, surprised, creeped out, etc. If it has happened and you did hook up, would you be interested if she wanted to do it again?

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  1. It has never happened once. And I was a bartender. I’m just ugly as fuck.

  4. Yeah this isn’t a thing that happens to dudes who aren’t famous or something.

  6. That just doesn’t happen in my world. It’s not like I never get laid, but it has never been a random woman or casual acquaintance approaching me to suggest that we enter into a sexual intimacy. Having said that, I have had close friends ease themselves into a casual intimacy, which is nice.

  8. No.

    That has never and will never happen. I’m not worth a one-time fuck.

  10. It happened to me once. Many many decades ago. I didn’t follow through because I was not interested in her. I am married now, so no one comes looking for me. Not even my spouse.

  11. Never happened. If it did, I’d think it’s a trap or a joke, unless I knew the person at some level. My type doesn’t attract the hooking-up kind of women.

  12. m58. It happens more often as I get older. Too many guys my age don’t keep themselves fit emotionally, physically and financially I think.

  13. To hook up? A handful. I passed up every opportunity, except for one. She was one of my crushes, in highschool, and didn’t even notice I existed (I think its because I hadn’t hit puberty yet, but who knows) in school. It was not a good time. I was still broken hearted about my ex cheating on me, and was just looking for someone to make memories in between the memories of my ex and I, because it had been a year, and I could still smell her hair 🙁 and remember every second together. I lost my erection during sex with my old crush. Told her I had finished, drove her home with very little conversation. She still talked to me(which surprised me) after, but I wasn’t interested in it, or a relationship with her. With her, I wouldn’t do it again. She was not a very good person. Other women, I’d be willing to, like my fwb.

    Asked out? Probably a dozen times or so. No, I’d never give any of those women another chance. Cheaters gonna cheat, or so they say.

  14. Doesn’t happen and even if it did, I would turn them down. Happily married for 27 years. No fling would ever replace what I have with my wife.

  15. Once when I was younger, she was really cool but those days are long past

  17. There’s a girl in my uni who would keep asking me to make her company during lunch hours, that was basically the closest I got to a woman approaching me for a hook up. I wasn’t particularly into her, but I accepted because I don’t like refusing invitations for anything, unless I’m busy or it’s something I definitely wouldn’t like. We didn’t really hit it off so I didn’t do it again after that.

    Honestly, it just surprises me. I’m not undateable or anything, but it’s so rare I never expect it to happen. I wouldn’t say it flattered me, actual compliments would flatter me.

  19. I think you overestimate how much attention men get from women.

    There hasn’t been a single time I’ve been approached or solicited.

    Neither any of my friends.

    Neither any of their friends…

    It just doesn’t happen dudette.

    If a chick I didn’t know walked up to me and asked to fuck, I’d assume she’s trying to rob me.

    If a chick walked up and asked me out though? I’d probably say yes even if I wasnt super attracted to them, because that shit takes guts. Only exception is if I find them repulsive

  22. Never. I’m not what you would say “approachable.” I have to make a genuine effort to socialize and make friends otherwise people will just stay away because I apparently scare them or as I’ve been told “I thought you hated me” even though I’ve never given any indication of that verbally. In my experience people dislike quiet people.

    If it did somehow happen, I’d be suspicious and would politely decline. I’m either being used or about to be mugged in the back of my mind.

  25. I don’t get approached like that. Doesn’t really bother me though. Not interested in hookups.

  26. I mean, I’ve definitely been approached, but strictly approached and just asked to fuck? Never. I don’t think I’d ever even be willing to do that, even if I was drunk, I’d just be too skeptical

  28. No, and I don’t expect it to even if I drop all my gut and never spend another jobless day until retirement or death, whichever comes first.

    Women who do this with any kind of sincerity and I just don’t have the same stomping grounds.

    If somehow it still did happen, I’d believe I’m being mocked or taken for a ride.

  30. It has happened only once at brothers wedding. One of the older bridesmaids propositioned me. I was down but she ended up drinking too much and calling it a night less than an hour into the after party. My typical luck, I got cockblocked by alcohol.

  35. Just to hook up? Shits happened like twice in my life. They usually want to get to know me and date.

    The two times, was a woman about 8 years old and she wanted an affair. And this one girl at a club. I was talking to her friend and she came over and whispered she wanted to fuck. She was drunk though and imma be honest, I didn’t fuck either

    Oh wait, I had a co worker who wanted to be fuck buddies and that was about it

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