I have since been more and more curious about exploring myself sexually (M23) and have started exploring with my asshole. I have found that it’s not that difficult to get upgraded size wise permitting you have some “inbetweens”. Anyways the reason I am writing this is because even though there is stimulation and i do feel a bit of pleasure it doesn’t seem enough to get me there. Also watching porn while doing it has no effect and my soldier goes down quite fast. I don’t know if I’m doing anything wrong and could really use some help. Could it be the position i find myself in? I’ve so far mostly tried cowgirl position but perhaps doggy would work better? Again any advice is much appreciated.
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I very much enjoy anal play, but I pretty much have to masturbate to get to orgasm – I have yet to be able to cum from anal alone. That said, anal stim usually really intensifies my orgasms.
it takes a lot of trial and error and a lot of work (for many people, not everyone). I’ve come very close before and that was after like half an hour of playing.
Ribbed/textured dildos feel way better than just the smooth, make sure to hit the spot. Maybe you want some vibration too. Maybe use a masturbator/sleeve at the same time.