I met this guy on tinder and we have been hooking up for over a month now. Sometimes I think he’s actually into me and wants more serious stuff but other times I’m not so sure. We have the red heart on Snapchat and talk everyday. We only communicate through snap even though we have each others numbers. He talks about doing stuff with me like going for ice cream or hiking or getting drink but we have yet to do any of that. He mentioned wanting to share a farm in stardew last time I saw him and that felt legit. We talk and have a lot to talk about. He has mentioned once or twice early on that I could keep like a toothbrush there but hadn’t brought it up in a while and I haven’t done it. Sometimes it seems like he has opportunities to hang out with me during the day but he doesn’t ask and I make it fairly clear I’m free. When I spend the night he’s very nice and affectionate. I kind of want to directly ask him but I’m nervous of that confrontation. I don’t wanna look pathetic or needy. Is it too soon to ask? Does it seem like he may want more? I’m not sure what to do.
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Just ask him.